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Will it hurt my divorce if I am in therapy?

Will it hurt my divorce if I am in therapy?

Will it hurt my divorce if I am in therapy?

Will it hurt my divorce i…
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People often ask whether they should delay or pause therapy during their divorce case, mainly out of fear it might be used against them. This fear is usually unfounded Most judges, especially in a family law case, are looking to see who is reasonable and self-aware enough to take appropriate initiative, and get the right help when they need it. From this perspective, you actually are strengthening your case if you get needed therapy during your divorce.

In addition, family separation and divorce are among the most stressful experiences anyone ever has. It is absolutely normal, if not necessary, for people to get some counseling or therapy during these times. You, and the people around you, including your lawyer, need you to be focused and logical in your decision making. Therapy can help reduce the emotionality of your reactions, and improve the overall outcome of your case. This is one of the reasons attorneys routinely suggest to divorce clients that they try therapy, at least to see whether it might be helpful.

And many people benefit from therapy for other reasons, unrelated to the divorce. There are people who started therapy because of their divorce, and then continued long afterwards, just because of the benefits in other aspects of their lives.

Finally, the law provides for confidentiality of treatment discussions between a patient and their licensed counselor or therapist. Some exceptions exist, though, so it is important to discuss the circumstances of your therapy with your lawyer.

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“I highly recommend Geoff. He and his all-star team assisted me through a difficult and contentious divorce and child custody case. Geoff’s knowledge and personal relationships really assisted in the positive outcome of my case. Geoff was efficient throughout the…”
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“Took a personalized approach to my complex divorce and was available to achieve an outcome beyond my highest expectations.”
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“Strategic and Pragmatic. Geoff has seen plenty of situations and how they play out. Geoff has an expert understanding of the process. Geoff does a great job of communication and letting you know what’s going on by including you in…”
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“One of the most dedicated, fair, competent, patient attorneys I have had the pleasure of dealing with. He has helped myself and many others through some difficult times. He is a very good listener and can direct you in the…”
– Divorce Client , ★★★★★ Lawyers.com Review
“Excellent at simultaneously executing specific tactical aspects of the case while maintaining overall macro view.”
– Family Law Attorney
“I have worked with Geoffrey S. Platnick as an expert witness in several cases and find him to be an excellent attorney with a real interest in his clients.”
– Child Custody Expert , ★★★★★ Lawyers.com Review
“Absolutely amazing during a very difficult time.”
– Divorce Client , ★★★★★ Lawyers.com Review
“He is a brilliant lawyer, a fantastic strategist, willing to resolve cases through mediation but kick butt in court if that is required, and in the final analysis, effective in achieving his clients’ goals. One of the really great ones.…”
– Family Law Client , ★★★★★ Martindale-Hubbell Review
“A very empathetic and diligent person and attorney. His tact in suggesting acceptable solutions to emotionally charged situations and sensitivity to child issues that can easily get neglected in the egoic fracases in such cases is truly exemplary. I am,…”
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