It is a common scenario. You have agonized over the decision to leave your marriage. You may have spent years in counseling. You may have been mulling over the decision for a long time, knowing it was right but being concerned to pull the trigger.
Unfortunately, no matter how good a divorce attorney is, or was for someone else, you could find yourself in a situation where your attorney just isn’t doing what you think they should be doing.
All who divorce go into a divorce with preconceived notions about what the experience will be like.
If you are leaving a marriage that is full of conflict, that conflict will follow you into your post-divorce life.
I’d not put much thought into the pain that divorce causes until I went through my own divorce.